To: {Guy who is going out on a date anyway}
From: {The worrying never really stops, y'know, just gets compensated for.}

Angie has already seen you be about as stupid as it is possible for you to be, I'd say, and she seems remarkably unrepulsed.

And let me let you in on a little secret: Everybody sucks at it at first. Or at least that's my working theory, because believe me when I tell you that Kitty and I are both lots better at it than we were the first time. I can't even remember the last time I had to think about what to do with my nose, for example.

It's a lot more about emotion than technique anyway Technique is just bonus, and improves with practice.