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xp_communication2024-02-03 02:06 pm
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Email to Alani, Sam, Kyle and Marie
From: Qadir, Sooraya
To: Ryan, Alani; Guthrie, Sam; Gibney, Kyle
CC: D’Ancato, Marie
Subject: Sharon
So I finally managed to pin down Sharon and it is a bit of a doozy
.
First off, it turns out Sharon had taken Hope’s shell. She will be returning it and will be apologizing to Hope as well, but she doesn’t want any other contact with her now. Sharon will also be apologizing to Liam and to Match.
During our talk it became clear Sharon is grieving losing both her mother and her original home. She has very little idea of how to even begin dealing with that. Hope’s recent arrival also has made her feel she is being excluded and that she is losing the place she has managed to create here. Basically, Sharon is pretty terrified and completely overwhelmed. Since Hope kinda is the trigger, Sharon has been mostly taking it out on her.
After she had the chance to let out some of her grief and a nap we had a long talk. Among the things we covered was not recognizing what is going on inside her and not taking it out on others. I tried to plant a seed or two in regards to counseling or something else to help her learn to recognize her own emotions and how to deal with them in healthier ways.
Most important for us now is that I have urged her to try and talk to someone if she is feeling upset and wanting to take it out on someone else. If she comes to any of us, I think we have to make that a bit of a priority. Still, it’s going to take a lot of trial and error.
I hope this gives some background on what is going on and if you have any more suggestions, I’d love to hear them.
Sooraya
To: Ryan, Alani; Guthrie, Sam; Gibney, Kyle
CC: D’Ancato, Marie
Subject: Sharon
So I finally managed to pin down Sharon and it is a bit of a doozy
.
First off, it turns out Sharon had taken Hope’s shell. She will be returning it and will be apologizing to Hope as well, but she doesn’t want any other contact with her now. Sharon will also be apologizing to Liam and to Match.
During our talk it became clear Sharon is grieving losing both her mother and her original home. She has very little idea of how to even begin dealing with that. Hope’s recent arrival also has made her feel she is being excluded and that she is losing the place she has managed to create here. Basically, Sharon is pretty terrified and completely overwhelmed. Since Hope kinda is the trigger, Sharon has been mostly taking it out on her.
After she had the chance to let out some of her grief and a nap we had a long talk. Among the things we covered was not recognizing what is going on inside her and not taking it out on others. I tried to plant a seed or two in regards to counseling or something else to help her learn to recognize her own emotions and how to deal with them in healthier ways.
Most important for us now is that I have urged her to try and talk to someone if she is feeling upset and wanting to take it out on someone else. If she comes to any of us, I think we have to make that a bit of a priority. Still, it’s going to take a lot of trial and error.
I hope this gives some background on what is going on and if you have any more suggestions, I’d love to hear them.
Sooraya