Oh and making sure that Sarah is emotionally dependent on you is? Don't think it has escaped my notice that she only leaves the mansion with you. You're making sure that she is relying on you as a sense of safety and security.
Sarah texted me back that it might be nice to get out. Like I am seriously going to force her to do anything she doesn't feel comfortable with. Seriously. If we got there and the crowds were too much we would have left. But keeping her in firmly entrenched in a perpetuating circle of fear and dependence is bull crap. She is never going to feel normal again if we don't give her opportunities to get out beyond her comfort zone.
Instead of just saying "no" flat out, why don't you ask your girlfriend what she wants. And stop assuming that I haven't thought things through and am disregarding Sarah's welfare.
You are so fucking ignorant and out of line it's not even funny. Sarah can do whatever she wants. I never said no for her, I said no for ME.
I'm not gonna feel bad about being there for Sarah after the shit that went down in Genosha. But if you're so worried about her not leaving the mansion with anyone but me why don't you ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE? Like somewhere in Salem. Or somewhere that isn't a huge ass crowd. Because that would be SMARTER and prove you actually HAD thought anything through.
You obviously don't actually understand anything. Don't sugar coat. Don't even fucking comment. Because your ignorance is showing and it's not a good look.
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Date: 2012-06-24 09:34 pm (UTC)Sarah texted me back that it might be nice to get out. Like I am seriously going to force her to do anything she doesn't feel comfortable with. Seriously. If we got there and the crowds were too much we would have left. But keeping her in firmly entrenched in a perpetuating circle of fear and dependence is bull crap. She is never going to feel normal again if we don't give her opportunities to get out beyond her comfort zone.
Instead of just saying "no" flat out, why don't you ask your girlfriend what she wants. And stop assuming that I haven't thought things through and am disregarding Sarah's welfare.
Great. Thanks.
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Date: 2012-06-24 10:28 pm (UTC)I'm not gonna feel bad about being there for Sarah after the shit that went down in Genosha. But if you're so worried about her not leaving the mansion with anyone but me why don't you ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE? Like somewhere in Salem. Or somewhere that isn't a huge ass crowd. Because that would be SMARTER and prove you actually HAD thought anything through.
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Date: 2012-06-25 12:27 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2012-06-25 12:32 am (UTC)