Email to Kyle
Feb. 15th, 2013 11:54 am![[identity profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/openid.png)
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To: [He who lunches]
From: [She who lunches more ]
Okay, so...you're basically possibly one of the only people who I know well enough to use the term 'friend' with who is also not related to Kurt in any way, and is also of emotional wellness enough to actually talk to about this stuff.
So like, it's Valentine day and Kurt told me he loves me. And I was kinda like 'Kiss you so I don't have to say anything' about it. I have...no idea what to do. I mean, I feel something, I just, he's Kurt. What if what I feel isn't actually like 'forever' love. What if it's just 'I really love how you treat me and I would like to know more'
How do guys like, deal with this stuff? I mean, we've been dating for awhile, so I don't think it's that fast but I'm still all 'OMG. Hide!' But also I'm like 'Yay! He loves me, that's so awesome'
Fuck.
~J.
From: [She who lunches more ]
Okay, so...you're basically possibly one of the only people who I know well enough to use the term 'friend' with who is also not related to Kurt in any way, and is also of emotional wellness enough to actually talk to about this stuff.
So like, it's Valentine day and Kurt told me he loves me. And I was kinda like 'Kiss you so I don't have to say anything' about it. I have...no idea what to do. I mean, I feel something, I just, he's Kurt. What if what I feel isn't actually like 'forever' love. What if it's just 'I really love how you treat me and I would like to know more'
How do guys like, deal with this stuff? I mean, we've been dating for awhile, so I don't think it's that fast but I'm still all 'OMG. Hide!' But also I'm like 'Yay! He loves me, that's so awesome'
Fuck.
~J.
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Date: 2013-02-15 01:30 am (UTC)from: [slightly less endless, yo]
Dude, why do you keep asking me this stuff? I am not like, the local expert on lob, here. I barely like to admit that I use the l-word with Dori (dude I totally got her sunflowers only some are made of fruit and peanut butter. Pretty sure she's going to be like HOLY SHIT KYLE IS THE BEST. In other news, I rule) but dude, it's Kurt. You say "I love how you treat me." and he'll be cool with it. He knows you're you. Don't be dumb.
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Date: 2013-02-15 01:39 am (UTC)From: [Found a new restaurant for their map]
It's because you keep giving me good advice, dude. You want me to stop bugging you about this stuff, stop being like emotional talk yoda.
You now need to show me these flowers you realise? Seriously, those sound like _totally_ awesome.
~J.