From: al-Rashid, Haroun
To: Maximoff, Wanda
BCC: Blaire, Alison
Subject:
Wanda:
I mean no disrespect, but I was out of line commenting on your half-in, half-out picture that you use as an icon. It was insensitive me to comment publically, and I must apologize.
Salaam,
Haroun
From: al-Rashid, Haroun
To: Blaire, Alison
Subject:
Alison:
I screwed up.
I know you hate it when I do that sort of thing, I did it without thinking, and I apologize.
I hear the couch is comfortable for sleeping...
Salaam,
Haroun
To: Maximoff, Wanda
BCC: Blaire, Alison
Subject:
Wanda:
I mean no disrespect, but I was out of line commenting on your half-in, half-out picture that you use as an icon. It was insensitive me to comment publically, and I must apologize.
Salaam,
Haroun
From: al-Rashid, Haroun
To: Blaire, Alison
Subject:
Alison:
I screwed up.
I know you hate it when I do that sort of thing, I did it without thinking, and I apologize.
I hear the couch is comfortable for sleeping...
Salaam,
Haroun
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Date: 2005-07-19 05:02 pm (UTC)BCC: [Alison]
From: [Wanda]
I appreciate the apology. I've never been offended by casual appreciation but if it makes Alison uncomfortable, than, by all means, I won't respond. It's not how I operate but it's not MY relationship, after all, and I honor those boundaries.
Wanda
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Date: 2005-07-19 05:27 pm (UTC)From: [Alison]
Boundaries! Yes, wonderful concept, that.
Alison
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Date: 2005-07-19 05:36 pm (UTC)From: [Wanda]
And had I known said boundaries before, I would have minded them.
Wanda
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Date: 2005-07-19 06:12 pm (UTC)From: [Alison]
There's boundaries and then there's boundaries, Wanda! Encouraging another woman's boyfriend in breast ogling? That's a boundary right there! Big difference between that and casual appreciation "oh, you look good today"!!!
And yes, he's getting his share of the grr here too.
Alison
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Date: 2005-07-19 06:16 pm (UTC)From: [Wanda]
I know it's a product of who I grew up around, but I don't always see the distinction between the two. Friendly flirting is just that, friendly with no strings attached or anything else.
That being said, I am sorry. (I hate apologizing, I really do, but there you have it.) I know I treat flirting quite differently than most people and I normally don't with attached people, even if it's just friendly. I slipped and commented before I could think.
Wanda
Reply to Haroun
Date: 2005-07-19 05:08 pm (UTC)Think more!!!
And the couch is bad for your back. We have a perfectly good bed. :p