Emails to Angelo, Clarice
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CC: ((Angelo))
Subject: Manuel
Can the both of you just learn to be mature for a little while and -deal- with him in something like a mature fashion? When people he has -actually- hurt can speak to him polietly, I think the two of you can manage to not state publically how much you hate him. Can you espically stop threatening to kill him?
He is -not- likely to back off until you do. I know Manuel too well to even think he might.
Angelo, you should know better. HOW many times has Ms. Frost told us in Speech that being polite to someone we dislike is the fastest way to put them at ill ease?
If you both think you are so much better than he is, .. what is the phrase?
Lay off him. Ignore him, let him alone. The most he can do is be rude to you, and if you can not handle a little rudeness, neither of you are the people I thought you were
CC: ((Angelo))
Subject: Manuel
Can the both of you just learn to be mature for a little while and -deal- with him in something like a mature fashion? When people he has -actually- hurt can speak to him polietly, I think the two of you can manage to not state publically how much you hate him. Can you espically stop threatening to kill him?
He is -not- likely to back off until you do. I know Manuel too well to even think he might.
Angelo, you should know better. HOW many times has Ms. Frost told us in Speech that being polite to someone we dislike is the fastest way to put them at ill ease?
If you both think you are so much better than he is, .. what is the phrase?
Lay off him. Ignore him, let him alone. The most he can do is be rude to you, and if you can not handle a little rudeness, neither of you are the people I thought you were
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Date: 2004-05-07 11:14 am (UTC)CC: ((Angelo))
Subject: Re: Manuel
I was TRYING to be nice and stop what I thought was going to be a problem. I said nothing about killing him - stabbing is not killing - in fencing (which he claims to do) it only means the other person scores a point.
I wasn't offering to take Angelo with me. He wants to see his friend, FINE. GOOD. SO DO I. I'd like for us all to see our friends without bickering or whatever.
I try to prevent a problem and it just creates more. fuck. everyone says "grow up, be more mature" and I am TRYING. I thought about how I would feel, how he would feel, what would happen, etc. and I decided to remove myself from the problem thinking that would help lessen or end it. and I'm called immature? fuck.
and there is a big difference between hate and dislike. I don't hate him. I would feel bad if he left or died or anything. I don't LIKE him. I don't wish for anything bad to happen to him.
-Clarice
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Date: 2004-05-07 12:10 pm (UTC)You threatened to stab him. That is not mature, that is not reasonable, that is not right.
I don't care about anything else. You. Threatened. To. Stab. Manuel.
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Date: 2004-05-07 02:31 pm (UTC)...
Date: 2004-05-07 07:39 pm (UTC)